Wednesday, September 26, 2007

LOST

wuuh!!
I cant believe i finished watching Lost season 3 more like in one day, yeah, non-stop after rangers till 5 Monday morning. Least the season is better than season 2, overall its good but thats not the point. The ending is what keeps me thinking.

So here's the case:
1st, we see Jack accidentally viewed Kate and Sawyer sleeping together in the cage before he decided operating Ben [formally known as Henry Gale in season 2]. Then at the operating room, he "held" Ben hostage till he frees Kate & Sawyer and thus asking Kate not to come back. In the end of the season, Jack told Kate not to come back coz he loves her and wish Kate and Sawyer to be happy together and in other words, Jack hopes that Kate will live happily with Sawyer, and by this means sacrificing his own happiness for them.

So here's the Question:
Would you give up your own happiness to see the person/people you love, love someone else by letting them chase their own happiness??

Therefore, my thought would be:
Lets take Jack for example, i think he's unselfish. He let Kate go with Sawyer when he could easily just save her and let them, The Others take Sawyer out of the picture, but he didnt. He let them escape and hope they'd be happy together.
Well, i can say that no matter how unselfish we are,we will always end up getting hurt. To see someone else happy doesnt mean that we will be happy. Disappointment, anger, envy, jealousy all this will appear in your heart and no matter how hard we try to forget, you cant just somehow let it go. However strong you think you might be, a cut in the heart will always leave a scar behind and its deeper and more painful then a cut on flesh and a wound that deep would not be easily heal.
Thus, i can conclude that no matter who we are, how we behave, what actions we take, giving up and letting go is always our choice but in the process, we would definitely hurt ourselves even though we decide to let it go or not.
Then again, if you say that dont get involved in anything will keep you from any tears and scars, my answer would be, No. The wound of living this world alone is greater than any wound you have felt before. Loneliness is the deepest wound anyone can ever have in their hearts. No one should live in this world alone. Trust me, seeing your friends with another, them having happy moments together, sharing each others joy & pain, the time they shared, it'll definitely hurt you really bad and the thoughts of having someone yourself will appear no matter how hard you try to block it off because seeing another person's joy, you will for sure want to experience the same kind of feeling that your friends have.

So the Real Question here is:
Live Together, Die Alone??

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